“To be complete herself, a woman really needs an image of female completeness or a goddess who does not only represent the light side. It would protect her from one-sided idealization of the feminine and motherhood. If she does not know the Dark Mother in herself she runs the risk of identifying with her light side. She then lives the dark side nevertheless, but unconsciously; in other words she becomes possessed.”
My work lies in helping mothers remember that you were never meant to be only the light. We are living in a time when the dark aspect of the mother is re-emerging, to be brought into complement with the light.
The mother who can hold both, who can love fiercely and release, who can give and also receive, who can be present and also separate, is the whole mother. She is what you are becoming. Yet in order to find Her, we often must pass through the Underworld first.
The Underworld is not a place of punishment. It is a place of transformation. I work as a guide for mothers traversing the terrain of the Underworld.
In the ancient Sumerian myth, Inanna, Queen of Heaven, adorned in her power and beauty, descends into the underworld to meet her sister Ereshkigal, queen of the Underworld. At each of seven gates, she surrenders something: a crown, a garment, a symbol of her identity. She arrives naked, stripped of everything she thought she was. She dies. And then, she rises.
This is the story of motherhood.
This is the map many mothers are living without knowing it. The stripping of identity that comes with birth, loss, illness, estrangement, or the slow disappearance of a former self. The encounter with grief, rage, helplessness, and the shadow dimensions of the psyche. The death of who you were. And the possibility, on the other side, of becoming who you truly are. And this becoming is astrologically aligned, it is destined.
The planets do not cause what happens to you. They illuminate when and for what.
Archetypal astrology offers a symbolic language for the timing of transformation. Among all the planetary archetypes, Pluto holds particular significance for initiatory descent, associated with death and rebirth, the eruption of what has been repressed, and the dismantling of structures that can no longer sustain life.
A mother moving through a Pluto transit may find herself in the midst of a profound upheaval: an identity that has collapsed, a grief that feels bottomless, a confrontation with shadow material she has spent years avoiding. This is Pluto.
When we can read our own charts, we can locate ourselves within a larger pattern, one that has both meaning and direction, even in its most disorienting moments.
You are already living a mythic story. The question is whether you have a language for it.
I work with mothers at the threshold, with those who sense that what they are moving through is larger than what the clinical world has named for them, and who are ready to meet it with depth, curiosity, and symbolic imagination.
If this speaks to you, I would be honored to walk with you.